I think we all agree with you, well at least I do! I also don't care my wife makes more, I'm glad she does, more for me to spend, as we are a team. My wife is an awesome mother, and a great cook too! She used to do all the cooking, then i realized I was asking a lot of her, and took over at least half the cooking! I made cod in a garlic and caper sauce last night. One of my standard dishes. The sauce is Grape seed oil, butter, capers, garlic (from my garden!), in a white wine base. I use a local Michigan Riesling wine. Very mild, I like it a lot for cooking. You use the oil to sauté the fish slightly to flavor the sauce. Remove fish, add wine reduce by half, add other ingredients and finish cooking fish in it.