I just grafted mine about a week ago, top-working a Northstar. The NorthStar has had that exact issue (wilting blooms) for several years now and I’m hoping to find something more resistant.
Either way, I can’t blame any issue on ARS, as the host tree has the issue already. I’m planning to leave all the grafts in place- if none take (something I’m not expecting), I’m finding something else for this spot.
Some of my plums set fruit the year after grafting, but it wasn’t as universal as with apples. Only two (Chojuro and Shinseiki) of the pear grafts from last year flowered (of 16 varieties, 5 of which were Asian pears).
The Euros take longer. In fact, I think only Elliot was the only Euro grafted in 2015 which flowered (all 3 of the Asians did). I still have a red fleshed pear which I grafted in 2013, which still hasn’t flowered. It must be competing with the nearby Magness, which is finally covered in bloom.