passionate is not the same as crazy, even though pretty close 
welcome to the club!
some fruit trees actually get by very well without artificially introduced nitrogen fertilizers, and jujus and mulbs seem to be two in that incredible group. It is impossible to get something(vegetative growth) out of nothing(zero nitrogen), so NOT a crazy thought for these to have symbiotic relations with nitrogen-fixing microbes.
actually have empirical(and of course 100% anecdotal) evidence that jujus might need certain microbes, because the seeds have planted on âsterileâ and âfreshâ commercial soil mixes(100% straight from the bags) seem to be laggards compared to those planted on soil formulations admixed with native, seasoned dirt obtained directly from our grounds, or old soil mixes sitting around and likely already inoculated with native earth(i.e. pots with soil from last yearâs already dead annuals).
i agree, foliar sprays would be the way to go, if you feel your trees are nitrogen deprived and if you are not inclined to disrupt the soil microbes with N, as researchers say N fertilizers are detrimental to nitrogen-fixing microbes http://grist.org/article/2010-02-23-new-research-synthetic-nitrogen-destroys-soil-carbon-undermines/
excited to hear it may just be a nutrient issue, as this could literally dispel the main gist of the title of this thread âjujube fruit set if you donât have hot dry summersâ!
quite curious, was the potted specimen something you obtained recently from an outside source, or is it an old juju you dug up from your yard and planted in a pot?