Thank you so much everyone for posting such useful information! I have been reading and researching all of your responses and it has been very helpful!
Fruitnut, I hate you for breaking this to me but your so right!!! I grow citrus, strawberries, cane berries, cherry, apricot, peaches, nectarines, plums, pluots, persimmon, apple, pomegranate, grapes organically in the Bay Area CA. I don’t think that’s possible anywhere else. I have to be ready to give up on at least a few to move.
Here is a summary of fruit production by states. Largest producers first -
Apple - Washington, NewYork, Pennsylvania, California and Virginia
Apricots - California,Washington
Raspberries – California,Oregon, Washington
Blackberries - Oregon
Cherries - Washington, Oregon, California, Michigan
Blueberries – Michigan, Washington,Georgia, and Oregon
Peaches - California, South Carolina, Georgia and New Jersey
Guava - Southern California
Persimmons – California
Pears - California, Oregon, Washington, Pennsylvania, Michigan,New York
Nectarines – California, Washington
Plums – California, Idaho, Michigan,Oregon and Washington
Pomegranates - California
Grapes – California,Washington, New York
Citrus – Florida, California,Arizona, Texas
Here are places I have visited so far in my search for a perfect place to live (looked into schools, homes, weather, social life, things to do…)
Maui, Hawaii – Liked the weather. Banana, Papaya, Pineapple, Mango, Avocado, Moringa, Macademia grow like weed everywhere. Great place for a vacation but not to live/raise a family. My son would probably be in the water or zip lining all the time and not bother with school !!!
Miami was great to visit too but not a fan of all that humidity. Loved the Disney cruise to the Bahamas.
NC (Raleigh, Charlotte) beautiful and so inexpensive but too cold in the winters.
Dallas - summers are too hot and winters too cold.
Costa Rica was amazing, a tropical paradise but again I would not raise a family there.
I visited Austin in Summer and I am here again in San Antonio for the winter holidays. Austin was highly recommended as a mini CA in Texas. Took my son to a spurs game earlier and the Alamo bowl yesterday(Stanford lost ). I did love the Riverwalk, Botanical Gardens, Alamo, tex mex, food trucks, etc I saw papayas, citrus, banana here. Was very surprised to see Papaya alive and fruiting this time of the year in San Antonio! Cant deal with the humidity though. Taking it off my list.
Based on recommendations in this thread, I plan to visit OR & WA. May be Vancouver too.
If I move up to Oregon/Washington it will be colder winters that I am not looking forward to but summers will be just right. I am still researching schools in Oregon & WA. Will plan a trip for spring break.
I am also looking into SC next but may rule it out due to humidity. Also on my list to research –
Sedona AZ, Southern Utah, San Diego.
I think my best bet may be in CA. I could save for a few years to buy something larger in the bay area. Another option would be to stay @ my current place & get a vacation home that’s less than an hours drive. A little 1 bed cottage with a pool and lots of land to grow fruit on. Sounds good on paper, how practical to drive there a couple of times a month, I don’t know…
I am going to checkout the list of places in CA that fruitnut recommended
Some questions on CA -
Stan, fruitnut, Richard - I drove past Tracy to go to Oakdale last Friday. Lot of smoke in the air and my eyes were burning. Was this one off or is this the pollution? Always this way? Clovis has some good schools, nice houses, big lots…. Is pollution as bad here too? I’ll drive down one these weekends to check it out…