Roots of forest trees can extend much more than 50’ and I do not know the extent of the average mature 15’ fruit tree in average soil, I do know that the finer the soil the less the root spread under normal conditions (that is, without irrigation).
However, the point isn’t how far the roots can spread so much as how far they need to. With fruit trees the usual quest is for moderate vigor and never maximum growth except during establishment. I’m not nearly satisfied with survival- when I put a plant in the ground I want good yields ASAP, especially when I plant trees for customers.
Recently I created optimum conditions for an early Pink Lady variety in my own orchard that was about a half inch diameter stick when it came from the nursery. I don’t usually water my fruit trees but this one I did- the soil was already good so I simply dressed it with 5 cubic ft of compost and equal wood chips. I fertilized it with my urine. On its second year in my ground it gave me a half bushel of apples on 111 rootstock- the tree was well branched, 2.5" diameter and 12’ tall, which amazed me, although I had experienced similar results with a peach I planted near a grey water outlet. One doesn’t realize how much growth is slowed even by short periods of drought when dry farming.
I know that most members of this forum do not have terribly vigorous trees, even when young, but some do, including Olpea who is a commercial peach grower. The reason I know this is that graft wood that is sent to me is often terribly thin even though I request at least pencil thick wood.
Where I live, the point is to get an established tree above the deer browse line ASAP along with getting as early crops as possible, at least for me.
There is absolutely no danger of limiting a fruit trees root spread when you amend about a 6’ diameter circle for it to grow into in most soils. On some occasions anchorage can be a problem, especially for apples on about their 5th year. If you drive a strong conduit stake into the ground to support apples on windy sites or sites with shallow soil and tie the tree to that, you won’t lose any trees. I am not sure how much amending contributes to this problem because I always at least dress trees with compost when planting and mulch for the first few years. Actually, you probably won’t lose any trees anyway, but you might have to lift some trees back up.
In poor soils I add at least 5 extra sq ft of compost that I blend with the existing soil about 6-10 inches down and 5-6 feet wide. In heavy clays where trees cannot grow I may add as much a a half yard of sand and compost for every tree to create mounds. The roots never leave the amended soil except maybe a few inches for water. This works great because it restricts root growth leading to fairly compact and very productive and healthy trees.
All that said, every gardener should develop their own methods to reach their own goals. If one is satisfied with the establishment of their trees without amending inferior soil- more power to you, but to claim that amending soil is necessarily bad for trees is not accurate, IMO.