The coverage in the Eastern cherry thread is pretty complete if this is the one you are referring to.
Basically in the East sweet cherries are hard to grow. You need to spray for brown rot and net or scare tape the tree. You need to pick cultivars that do well in the East- WhiteGold, BlackGold, Emperor Francis, Black Tartarian, etc. All of these have been trialed successfully in the East and have some resistance to cracking/brown rot.
Looking at your list of cherries none of them are cherries I would recommend in the East especially Bing and Lapins.
As far as the Lapins what roostock did you buy it on? If it’s on mazzard that going to be a full size cherry and big. If the rootstock wasn’t listed on the tree tag it probably is mazzard as well since that is the default sweet cherry rootstock. In general if you want smaller trees that are easier to maintain you want to get them on Gisela or Krymsk rootstocks.