Maybe I’m thinking of a different species, but the pear on hawthorn I’ve seen all had dramatic size differences at the graft union? Like the pear was six inches in diameter and the hawthorn was maybe four.
Aronia and cotoneaster are both dwarfing and pear compatible. We have a thread or two about both, with mixed results. My guerilla grafted pear on cotoneaster was either removed by people or deer. Probably the latter. The one on Aronia is still doing OK.