Letter to my daughter

I wrote this to my daughter a few days ago. I thought this forum might appreciate it, too. (The seedlings in question are pawpaws, fwiw.)

Dearest daughter,

We planted trees yesterday. They are tiny little seedlings, just a few inches tall and barely distinguishable from the grass around them. If all goes well, we will see the literal fruits of our labour in about 8 years.

This was the culmination of months of work. Every night, we would check on our seeds for signs of germination. Any that we found went into a repurposed soda bottle, which then went onto the window sills in your room. You have over a dozen in your collection by now. But finally, some of them have graduated to the outdoors.

8 years is a long time. You will be 11 by then, nearly in middle school. But, in the grand scheme of things, perhaps it isn’t so long after all. You will still have many more years to enjoy after 11, and even I can expect several decades worth of reaping.

I am writing this now so that you will remember. I don’t know what the coming days will hold. A storm might wipe out our work, or we might have to move away from it. But maybe, just maybe, you’ll be able to spend your formative summers enjoying snacks fresh from our yard. When you do, remember that the groundwork was laid for that now, in a time you probably don’t even remember. And then position yourself for the 8 years to come, and then for the years after that.

8 years is not that long. We build for the future.

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Tim, this was so sweet. You should have this in a scrapbook, so you can continue to add entries and photos. This will be something your daughter will treasure and hold so close to her heart, all her life. What a lovely thing to immortalize for her!! :heart:

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Save a copy for yourself, too, as you keep building for the future while banking cherished memories of the past.

You will love her for the woman she becomes, but you will also always love and cherish her as the child she is today.

May you enjoy many paw paws together, and may she pass the tradition to her own children.

Tim, very nice.

This is indeed something your daughter will cherish for a long time. When my daughter was little, we did some things like this and we occasionally still talk about those memories. I think these types of things bring a young daughter a certain sense of love and security like nothing else can.

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Well done my friend.

Very nice. Your daughter will grow up with sweet memory of her childhood with dad