Susu, welcome aboard. I live in the philly western suburb, zone 6, so we are in the same general area. Many experts here have given you a lot of valuable advices already, I am just going to describe here what I do for my fruit trees, and whatever I do, I learned from the experts here.
I have grape, peach, plum and pear. Plum and pear are not really bearing, so I only need to deal with grape and peach.
Grape: black rot. I spray immunox multipurpose fungicide (1.5% myclobutanil) twice a season, once in the spring when green shoot is about an inch long(I read it somewhere), and when grape bunch show sign of black rot again, I spray one more time. That’s enough to take care the problem. This year, I will try what Allen said above, spray second time after grape looses its petal and see if it will work.
Peach:
peach borer: when I first discovered borer at bottom of tree trunk, I tried for a year to treated it by using latex paint and mothball, It didn’t work😡 So I sprayed with sprays with bifenthrin as active ingredient. It worked. Nowadays, every few years I will discover borer again, I will just use sharp object impale the larvae and spray.
Leaf curl: I spray copper once a year at early spring when tree are still dormant .
Brown rot and bugs: I am constantly battling these two. I spray captan (fungicide) and Triazacide(pesticide) at bud break, petal fall, shuck split and one more time two weeks after that(sometimes, I skip the last one). That usually have brown rot and bugs under control. I still got some brown rot, some bug damages, but it’s at a acceptable level to me.
I don’t spray anything in full bloom because of bees. I know people say fungicide won’t hurt bees, but I am worried bees may still be impacted by it.
I find that timing of spray is very important To control bugs. My peach trees don’t flower at the same time. This spring, when i did Petal fall spray, one tree was closer to shuck split than to petal fall, the fruits from this tree end up to be very wormmy while peaches from other trees only have superficial bug damage.
These are just my personal experience. I would love to grow them organically, but I am kind of lazy😔