IL,
Let me try to answer you.
Peach - any length from one fruit every 6-8". Mark, the peach man, thin his up to 12" per peach.
I get rid of
- “twin peaches”
- damaged ones
- peaches that smaller than others nearby
- peaches that have no leaves next to them
- peaches on small branches which cannot support them if they grew bigger.
I try to keep clean, bigger fruitlets that get good sun exposure (when possible).
A. pear:
keep 2 per cluster on average. If a tree is young, I may not keep any. If I want to taste it, I keep one.
- Pear usually grows like crazy. If you want to concentrate on help your tree grow, you may not want to keep the fruit. Fertilize it. For vegetative growth, people may use urea/nitrogen fertilizer. I use either 10-10-10, Plant Tone or Tree Tone
- could be birds. Some birds do so.
Apricot - I have not grown so no first hand experience
Plum :
Some J plum that overset like Shiro, I was told to thin to about 4-6" per fruit. I follow the same rule of peach thinning.
Some plum that does not set very much - no need to thin
I bend all my plum branches. I just use rocks (grow abundantly in the Northeast
) as weight.
The two J plum I have Shiro and Satsuma have thrown out long branches. They are all bent to almost horizontally. Make the trees low, perfect for me.
Sweet cherry : Never prune. Have lot of cherries. They all grow up to full size. Black Gold and Vandalay. Birds are faster than me most years. Brown rot and cracking are the issues, not thinning.
Others may have better ideas for you. I hope this help.