If you want a central leader then i wouldn’t do anything more than notch above the buds where you want to encourage branches to grow. Many examples of this can be found but I really enjoy Skillcult’s videos on youtube.
Try this one https://youtu.be/KAHNbjoTWyc?si=AhF-uLT21ncOF9Zo
Scaffold height is merely a preference for your picking and pruning circumstances. Im in an area with deer pressure so I train my scaffolds higher than most. The farther from my house, the higher I train them, otherwise the deer will just do it for me.
If you don’t want to lose the length of the scaffold, consider tying it down. This will encourage the older wood to begin forming fruit buds and it stops the lateral from competing with the central leader. If it’s too long you can prune back the one year old wood (in your case the scaffold may be all one year old wood) but leave a couple of the young buds for the laterals continued growth. Orin Martins’ videos are pretty decent, YouTube channel: UC Santa Cruz Center for Agroecology
Think that is mainly the problem with heading off a whip… you then get a bunch of shoots/branches in a small amount of space near the top of the whip.
Ideally your scaffold branches would have more distance betwen them.
I ended up espellar training mine and that is working fine so far.