suppose I KNEW a guy (certainly not me) who didn’t label some pots, certain he’d remember what was in them. Now suppose he has persimmons. Or pawpaws. But he has something, about 12" tall, 2-year growth with large leaves that look a lot like a pawpaw…or a persimmon.
Any simple way to tell which these are without waiting a few years? *scratches head…er, scratches that other guy’s head
Yes, what Dave said. Pawpaw terminal buds are very distinctive, especially on larger trees/stems with larger buds but if you look closely you should be able to see very distinctive buds on smaller trees, too.
On the other hand,
You can identify a pawpaw with your eyes closed…
By the smell of a crushed leaf, strong kerosene type smell.
Persimmon does not have a strong smell
I can see your (friend’s) conundrum. Vigorous specimens of the two look surprisingly similar. I have one of each in the same sized pot and their appearance can be deceiving at times.